In this section, we will cover cognitive biases and why they are important, I will share a few words about myself, and we'll explore "political correctness." In section two, we look at the meaning of …
A cognitive bias is like an illusion for the mind. It is a deviation from rationality in judgment.
As a social psychologist, my goal is to see issues as objectively as possible while recognizing my own biases.
Political correctness is defined as “the avoidance, often considered as taken to extremes, of forms of expression or action that are perceived to exclude, marginalize, or insult groups of people…
The Uncomfortable Idea
10 lessons
In this video we cover Credibility, Expose Dangerous Thinking, Attempting to Solve the Wrong Problem, and Treating Symptoms and Not the Disease.
When we get caught up in ideology and political correctness, we overlook the downside of our actions.
Another example of the unintended consequences of avoiding uncomfortable ideas has to do with identity politics, or a political style that focuses on the issues relevant to various groups defined by a…
Depending on how passionate one might be about certain issues, one can dislike or even hate people who hold opposite views on those issues. If we want to understand why someone holds the idea they do,…
Very often, one who presents fringe ideas is well aware of the common objections to the idea and like a good salesperson has crafted answers that address the objections.
One unifying force of humanity is our shared reality. Similarities bring people together while differences tend to tear us apart.
Within the context of avoiding uncomfortable ideas, “avoiding” can refer to a) keeping the idea from entering one’s own thoughts or b) the conscious decision to not think about, investigate, or consid…
Uncomfortable Ideas and the Reasons Why We Avoid Them
21 lessons
We can sum up all the reasons why we avoid uncomfortable ideas with the phenomenon known as "motivated reasoning." This describes how emotionally-charged ideas undergo a qualitatively distinct reasoni…
Most of the unconscious reasons fall under the general category of self-preservation and are a result of the self-serving bias, which is any cognitive or perceptual process that is distorted by the ne…
What do you think of Adolf Hitler? If I had to guess, I would say you think he was a monster. We accept that a monster can be responsible for the murder of six million Jews, but the moment we humanize…
We overcompensate for these positive feelings by publicly refusing to entertain these ideas.
Sigmund Freud introduced the idea of defense mechanisms, which are unconscious psychological mechanisms that reduce anxiety arising from unacceptable or potentially harmful stimuli, or in our case, un…
Being comfortable with or even just tolerating nuance and ambiguity is not a common characteristic found in most people.
Some ideas, especially those based strongly on reason and logic, can be seen as “cold,” “calculating,” and “lacking humanity.” When exposed to ideas like these, we …
In this context, we can define sacred beliefs as beliefs that are off limits to criticism, doubt, or critical thought.
Most of the conscious reasons we avoid uncomfortable ideas fall under the general category of fear of the consequences.
Sometimes we fear that the truth will have a negative impact on society, so the "right" choice is to live the lie.
Patriotism is defined as “an emotional attachment to a nation which an individual recognizes as their homeland.” This is a highly subjective term, and patriotism can be expressed in many ways. People …
Social interaction and relationships have been shown to be one of the greatest indicators of well-being. We maintain positive relationships by being agreeable and not argumentative or contrarian. Rath…
Nature has not made it a priority that we know the truth—not when the truth interferes with survival or reproduction. As mentioned, the self-serving bias is our brain’s way of interpreting…
Yes, there are still an alarming number of people who genuinely believe that entertaining certain ideas is “the work of Satan.”
We avoid entertaining ideas that just feel wrong simply because the ideas to us are automatically interpreted as evil, sick, or immoral. The ironic part is, unless we entertain these thoughts, we cann…
Some refuse to entertain ideas that go against an authority figure in fear that they will be punished for questioning authority, displaying a lack of loyalty, showing a lack of faith in the authority,…
Those thoughts, feelings, or behaviors that are not consistent with the kind of person we think we should be are our metaphorical demons. We don’t like ideas that remind us of how we fail to live up t…
Why We Refuse To Accept Uncomfortable Ideas
12 lessons
When a person refuses to entertain an uncomfortable idea, they shield themselves from evidence and facts that could cause them to accept the idea.
It should go without saying that one cannot evaluate evidence without being aware of the evidence.
Believability in this context refers to knowing what level of trust one should have in the source as well as knowing what constitutes evidence and how to tell the difference between strong and weak ev…
Thanks to belief-related cognitive biases and effects, sometimes facts, evidence, and reason don’t stand a chance.
We need to remember that there are often two sides to the equation when it comes to accepting an uncomfortable idea: there is the acceptance of the uncomfortable idea and the rejection of the comforta…
Some More Uncomfortable Ideas
15 lessons
In this section, we cover The Self-Fulfilling Nature of Social Injustice Love Isn’t Always Beautiful, and You Don’t Love Everyone People Are Much More Selfish Than You Think “Microag…
One often hears the expression “I will do anything for...” in combination with a declaration of love. This is a wonderful thing... if you are the object the love, otherwise, you might be s…
Our behavior is controlled by our brains and most of what we believe to be selfless acts are far from selfless.
Ideas that challenge these sacred beliefs are the most uncomfortable; therefore, they are the most avoided, ignored, and dismissed.
Works of fiction often have several “plot holes” that make the story more appealing, but only if you don’t think about the plot holes.
Given everything we know about the human brain, it is clear that the mind is a function of the brain.
Lacking education in world religions, many people are not even aware of these other texts and are convinced that the holy book of their particular religion, from their particular culture, is the one &…
“The God of the Old Testament is arguably the most unpleasant character in all fiction: jealous and proud of it; a petty, unjust, unforgiving control-freak; a vindictive, bloodthirsty ethnic cle…
There are literally dozens of studies and scientific polls that look at intelligence and religious belief. When evaluating all the available research, we find that there is no compelling evidence that…
No one can offend you without your consent.
We need to accept the uncomfortable idea that we are not right all the time, and that admitting we were wrong brings us one step closer to actually being right.
You have been exposed to hundreds of uncomfortable ideas in this book, and hopefully, you have entertained rather than dismissed them.